What people think of you will greatly affect your growth
in you company and the respect you are treated with. People tend to think that
their opinion of you is factual and uninfluenced but in most cases reputations spread within sub-groups, individuals tend to look at others to fill in gaps and validate their thoughts.
It is important to understand that opinions have origins which are usually based
on some form of perceived fact, whether it is true or not however does not change
its influence.
I tend to believe that only 50% of your job is directly
linked to your professional skillset the rest consist primarily on your
reputation which could include things such as your perceived dedication,
perceived skillset, reliability, networking and relationships.
Some areas that affect your reputation in your influence
sphere:
- Behavior/ Mannerisms
- Commitment/Reliability
- Skillset (Profession & Social)
- Position and achievements
It is important to have a healthy reputation where the
perceived reputation is as close to the truth as possible. People don't need
you to be good at everything before you will earn their respect but they need
something they look up to more than the aspect that they despise (E.g. If you
have a difficult character you might need to be brilliant in your profession).
Do not let wrong impressions go past without correcting
them (e.g. if you are working hard and the perception is that you are not it
needs to be addressed as you will be judged by reputation not by facts). On the
other hand if there are positive areas in your reputation that people respond
to take care to live up to that responsibility and grow even more in it.
Learn how to address discrepancies and convey your intentions/actions
in such a way that there is little room for confusion.
Remember that preventing misunderstandings is easier than
correcting them and winning a person is more important than winning the
argument. Lastly avoidance can also be a form of prevention (but only in extreme
cases), bad reputation spreads like a poison where it can takes years to build
a good reputation.